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Post by SharksFan99 on Apr 3, 2018 23:43:10 GMT 10
Many couples are choosing not to wed, and it's not purely out of financial circumstances either. Generally speaking, marriage is no longer romanticized as it once was, which may partly be an indirect result of religion's declining influence. Statistics show that religion is gradually becoming less influential, meaning that marriage is no longer viewed as being important as it once was.
Marriage itself is a concept derived from traditional, outdated values. It is no longer viewed as solely being a kinship between a man and a woman. As social norms continue to progress over time, the relevancy of marriage is beginning to be challenged. Many women are choosing to retain their maiden name, rather than adopting the surname of their partner. Also, the rate of divorce has significantly increased over the past few decades, and it's not unusual for people to date several people over the course of their life.
The idea of marriage collides with the growing ideals of individualism and female enpowerment. These concepts are greatly being encouraged over more traditional, conformist concepts such as marriage. In your opinion, do you believe marriage (in it's traditional form) is still relevant? Does the idea of marriage sound appealing to you? If you were/are in a relationship, would you like to get married?
I personally don't mind the idea of getting married, as long as it's something that my partner and I can both agree on. Although, I honestly don't have any interest in entering into a relationship, at least not at the present time. As awful as it sounds, I just can't really imagine myself in a traditional family environment (having a wife and kids), because I've never experienced that. My parents divorced when I was 18 months old and I don't have any siblings. The idea of a traditional family environment is completely foreign to me. With that said, my opinion on the matter is likely to change as I get older.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2018 2:04:01 GMT 10
I've never wanted to marry. I see it as a curtailing of freedom. The only reason I can see for marriage is if you want children as I believe that one should be married before becoming a parent. But that's just me. Marriage is fine for those who want it, I don't.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2018 6:02:49 GMT 10
I want to start a family in a monogamous relationship, but not in my 20s, I've decided.
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Post by rainbow on Apr 4, 2018 6:27:46 GMT 10
It's definitely still relevant, at least from my experience. In fact, I went to two of my cousin's weddings last year and that was the most weddings I've attended in a year. I can't speak for the whole population though.
I don't mind the idea of getting married either, but I want to be careful about who I'm going to marry because it's the biggest change in a relationship, and I'll pretty much have that person for the rest of my life.
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Post by mwalker96 on Apr 4, 2018 11:01:48 GMT 10
My cousin got married last year to rainbow, (at the age of 24). It was crazy seeing get married because he grew up with me and my brother. He and his girlfriend were dating for almost 9 years before getting married, they went through high school and college together. When that time comes for me I'm going to make sure it's someone that I 100% comfortable.
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Post by rainbow on Apr 4, 2018 11:53:50 GMT 10
My cousin got married last year to rainbow , (at the age of 24). It was crazy seeing get married because he grew up with me and my brother. He and his girlfriend were dating for almost 9 years before getting married, they went through high school and college together. When that time comes for me I'm going to make sure it's someone that I 100% comfortable. Umm, I didn't marry your cousin... That's just creepy.
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Post by mwalker96 on Apr 4, 2018 12:02:18 GMT 10
My bad lol. I forget to put a period after your name, but yea it was crazy seeing him exciting seeing him get married.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 10, 2018 12:10:46 GMT 10
Marriage is relevant and important to establish rights and obligations between two spouses as well as any biological or adopted children and affinity (in laws.)
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Post by #Infinity on Apr 10, 2018 13:08:43 GMT 10
Yes, marriage is pretty critical for providing a sturdy foundation to raise kids and also benefits for couples whose lives mean the world to each other. It's possible to be a single parent or just raise a kid separately, but it's much more difficult and certainly not recommended, especially when we're supposed to raise our younger generations with love, respect, and care.
As for myself, I'm in the same boat as Slowpoke. I fantasize about marriage, but not only do I want to reserve it for the right individual, I also want to enjoy the freedom of my 20s while I can while also cultivating enough income that I can raise my kids in the right environment.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 10, 2018 13:44:15 GMT 10
Marriage relevant and important to establish rights and obligations between two spouses as well as any biological or adopted children and affinity (in laws.) Absoposidutibily.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 10, 2018 14:17:01 GMT 10
Marriage relevant and important to establish rights and obligations between two spouses as well as any biological or adopted children and affinity (in laws.) Absoposidutibily. What???
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Post by Deleted on Apr 10, 2018 14:37:19 GMT 10
I'm just messing with ya. I thought it funny how you gave a very technical reply to a very personal question
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Post by SharksFan99 on Apr 10, 2018 15:48:15 GMT 10
It's possible to be a single parent or just raise a kid separately, but it's much more difficult and certainly not recommended, especially when we're supposed to raise our younger generations with love, respect, and care. I tend to agree. My parents divorced when I was just 18 months old, so I grew up in a single parent household. I can only speak from my own personal experience, but the love, respect and care I received (and continue to receive) from my parents growing up wouldn't have been any different in the scenario that they were still living together. I would argue that would be the case for most people who grew up in a single-parent household.
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Post by Mozzie on Apr 10, 2018 16:37:10 GMT 10
I have been with my partner for 20 years we have 3 kids and never married,
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2018 0:55:01 GMT 10
Fair play to you, Mozzie, you may not have married but you at least stuck together and raised your children in a stable environment.
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