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Post by SharksFan99 on Aug 5, 2018 21:23:13 GMT 10
In years gone by, our neighbours played a significant role in our day-to-day communications with others. It was not uncommon for neighbours to bond over similar interests, invite each other into their homes and even get to know each others respective families. However, as technology has advanced and life has become more "fast-paced" over time, the role of our neighbours has seemingly been on the decline. Do you have a friendship with your neighbours and how often do you interact with them, if at all? Admittedly, I very rarely interact with my current neighbours, although I did have regular interactions with the people who lived next door to me during the 2000s. The neighbour to the right of us was a single woman in her 70s and when my Mum had to start work early in the morning, she would come over to our house and babysit me before school when I was 7/8 years old. If my Mum was working dayshift and my Grandparents were unable to babysit me, I would also sometimes go over to her house after school. Unfortunately, her children (both of whom were in their 40s) had to sell the house back in 2009, because the woman had developed dementia and she was required to move into a nursing home. That was almost a decade ago, so I would unfortunately have my doubts that she would even still be alive now. Our other neighbours were a middle-aged couple with two teenage sons. I would often hang out with the youngest son after school, despite the fact that he was born in the Late '80s/Early '90s. In retrospect, it's funny to think that a 14/15 year old would choose to hang out with a 5 year old kid. We would often ride our bikes around the cul-de-sac and try to do a few tricks on our bikes, such as riding really fast around the cul-de-sac one-handed. The father passed away from a terminal brain tumour back in 2006 and the family decided to move after he had passed.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 6, 2018 7:43:07 GMT 10
I've just been drinking with them (and am slightly stoned!). Apart from one, I interact with most of them.
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Post by rainbow on Aug 6, 2018 7:51:33 GMT 10
Not really tbh. All my best friends live in different neighborhoods.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 6, 2018 9:38:49 GMT 10
We exchange mostly pleasantries and I only know a little bit about them. I have a quick chat with them if I see them at the supermarket or when I'm out and about, but that's about it.
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Post by EyewitnessTV on Nov 22, 2018 2:38:17 GMT 10
Not really. I’ve lived in the my current area for the past 14 years, and If we see each other while leaving and returning for the day then we usually acknowledge by waving to each other from our vehicles, but that’s the extent of it.
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Post by phoenix on Nov 23, 2018 0:32:52 GMT 10
I’ve lived here for about six years I think, and I still don’t interact with my neighbors much. No one really does, we all basically keep to ourselves, though everyone is friendly for the most part. Sometimes we’ll help each other out for things like raking leaves, shoveling, and such.
I have a neighbor who’s lived next to me for a few years and we’ve had to call the cops over the summer because they kept letting their dog roam free everywhere and when I went to take my leashed dog out front for a walk, their dog sprinted over and bit my dog pretty badly. She’s alright but she has a nasty scar from the whole ordeal, and we were debating being those neighbors who call the cops but it got to the point where we were afraid to even go outside of the house with the dogs and that’s just not OK. Luckily my dogs are vaccinated because we found out that their dog wasn’t registered or even up to date on anything, especially for rabies.
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Post by longaotian on Nov 25, 2018 14:55:35 GMT 10
My interaction with the neighbours is honking at them if their driving too slow down the street.
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Post by EyewitnessTV on Nov 25, 2018 14:59:43 GMT 10
My interaction with the neighbours is honking at them if their driving too slow down the street. You’re a friendly neighbor then aren’t you. I’m glad I don’t live near you lol.
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Post by longaotian on Nov 25, 2018 15:01:35 GMT 10
My interaction with the neighbours is honking at them if their driving too slow down the street. You’re a friendly neighbor then aren’t you. I’m glad I don’t live near you lol. You don't have a clue. Its like everyone in my neighbourhood is in on some weird cult where they think the speed limit is 25 instead of 50.
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Post by EyewitnessTV on Nov 25, 2018 15:11:09 GMT 10
You’re a friendly neighbor then aren’t you. I’m glad I don’t live near you lol. You don't have a clue. Its like everyone in my neighbourhood is in on some weird cult where they think the speed limit is 25 instead of 50. I do actually. I have a few neighbors who do a similar thing in my area. they drive along at a limit of 15km where they should be actually doing 45km. Really, if they can’t do near the limit they should be handing their license in IMO. Btw, I was just joking with you in case you missed it.
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Post by longaotian on Nov 25, 2018 15:14:48 GMT 10
You don't have a clue. Its like everyone in my neighbourhood is in on some weird cult where they think the speed limit is 25 instead of 50. I do actually. I have a few neighbors who do a similar thing in my area. they drive along at a limit of 15km where they should be actually doing 45km. Really, if they can’t do near the limit they should be handing their license in IMO. Btw, I was just joking with you in case you missed it. You weren't mistaken, I don't miss a thing .
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Post by SharksFan99 on Nov 25, 2018 19:27:52 GMT 10
My interaction with the neighbours is honking at them if their driving too slow down the street. Wow, you're friendly. Joking aside though, that's something that happens to me more often than not as well, because I personally live in a housing estate and there is only one road that goes into the estate (meaning that I get stuck behind slow drivers pretty often!). I don't honk my horn at them though, I just impatiently sit on their tail.
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Post by longaotian on Jul 2, 2019 17:49:01 GMT 10
It depends which neighbours. Some are normal...some are a little bit crazy. Sometimes if were having drinks we will invite the neighbours.
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Post by AussieTV on Jul 3, 2019 8:58:03 GMT 10
The neighbours adjacent, (to the right), and across the road from me have not changed since we moved here in 2006. We have a really close connection to our neighbours across the road, and we, on occasion, have dinner together.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2019 11:18:46 GMT 10
There is one friend I made in my neighbourhood last month. His family saw me biking at the park (and they were all on their bikes too) and they recognized me. He's 25 but he's more friends with my brothers because they are all into basketball and he has a basketball net on his driveway so he knocks on the door to call them out to play like we were all kids again.
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