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Post by єяиα on Aug 17, 2018 12:57:29 GMT 10
Hi, so I'm new and still learning to use this forum and I really seem to enjoy. Has anyone ever had a crush on you? I think someone had a crush on me because in 5th grade I remember a guy that was looking at me everyday. But everytime I caught him he looked away! He also asked me to borrow a pencil but everyone else was packed with pencils. Why me out of everyone else? My friend even said he was smiling at me when I wasn't looking. I wanted to confront him but I didn't want to embarrass myself if he was just being plain nice or he's just a very nice guy, so I waited to see how things would play out and eventually he said that he liked my artwork! He wanted me to sign my name on his yearbook on the last day of school. He's moved so I haven't heard anything from him since then.
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Post by SharksFan99 on Aug 17, 2018 14:05:27 GMT 10
Yep. From the start of Year 3 right until the end of primary school, there was a girl in my year group who had a crush me. I had feelings for her as well. The funny thing is, we were basically in a de-facto relationship, because we both knew that we had feelings for each other. She actually lives directly behind my house, so we would often go on our trampolines after school and talk to each other over the back fence. The girl who lived directly across the road from me was in the same class as us and she also developed feelings for me as well. I had been friends with her since her family moved into the house across the road when I was 8. It wasn't until the start of Year 4 (when I was 10) that she started to have a crush on me. The girl who lives behind my house found out that she had developed feelings for me and they had a massive argument about it, which resulted in them no longer being friends. I felt really guilty about it at the time. There was a point in Year 4 where there were 5 girls who had a crush on me, but I only had feelings for the girl who lives directly behind my house. Also, at the beginning of Year 7, there was a girl in my year group who had a crush on me. She went to a different primary school to me, so I didn't know her before the start of High School. During sport on the second week of school, she went up to me and started a conversation with me. That went really well and we started to talk to each other over the next few weeks. I just wanted to be friends with her, but she wanted to go out with me. Her friend would constantly tell me to go on a date with her, which to be honest, did become very annoying after a while. In the end, I told her that I would only like to be friends with her and that I simply wasn't ready to enter into a relationship. She took it well and understood where I was coming from, but her friend wasn't happy with me at all. The reason why I said no, was simply because I had only just turned 13 and I was still trying to settle into High School; I just wasn't ready to enter into a relationship at that time. If she had of asked me later on in High School, I would have said yes. Unfortunately, that never happened, because she asked my best friend out just a few months later and they have been in a relationship ever since. I still remained friends with her (and my best friend) right until the end of High School though and we all sat with each other during our lunch breaks, so that was good. I'm not aware of anyone who has had a crush on me since. I do remember going to a McDonalds when I was 17 and seeing a 13/14 year old girl who was checking me out, but that's pretty much it. Edit: Sorry if my post came across as me bragging, as that was never my intention. I just went into detail about what has actually happened.
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Post by rainbow on Aug 17, 2018 14:42:40 GMT 10
I don't remember anyone having a crush on me lol. Maybe someone has but they probably just never told me. Idk.
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Post by smartboi on Aug 17, 2018 14:55:52 GMT 10
The only time I knew of a girl liking me was back when I was in 8th grade. She sat next to me in my science class and would always tell me that she loves how cute and awkward I apparently was. I was SO SO SO stupid that I just didn't pick up on any of the signals. Like I also found her attractive and was interested in her,yet for some reason I never made any moves! That was definitely one of the biggest regrets of my life.
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Post by Mibblez on Aug 17, 2018 15:42:06 GMT 10
The times I can think of where I think someone had a crush on me was at my local convenience store and there was this cashier girl who sometimes would be at the front counter to check out our items and she always would try and make conversation and apparently kinda flirted with me, I didn’t want to take the risk and ask just in case she didn’t like me like that, apparently it was obvious to everyone else but by the time I finally can say I have courage she doesn’t work there anymore 😂
Another time I can think of was when me and my mum were shopping at Walmart the day before I started my first day of senior year and I was wearing a tv show hat from gravity falls and a random girl came up to me and started fangirling about how into the show she was and stuff and during the whole time I was like “uhhh” like I was happy but super in shock so I barely talked much and she left and I was tempted to go back to her and ask for her number but I chickened out lol.
I sure have the way with the ladies I know 😏😂
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Post by Mibblez on Aug 17, 2018 15:44:41 GMT 10
The only time I knew of a girl liking me was back when I was in 8th grade. She sat next to me in my science class and would always tell me that she loves how cute and awkward I apparently was. I was SO SO SO stupid that I just didn't pick up on any of the signals. Like I also found her attractive and was interested in her,yet for some reason I never made any moves! That was definitely one of the biggest regrets of my life. I feel you dude, don't beat yourself up for it though, a lot of girls are gonna be into you.
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Post by aja675 on Aug 17, 2018 15:56:42 GMT 10
The only time I knew of a girl liking me was back when I was in 8th grade. She sat next to me in my science class and would always tell me that she loves how cute and awkward I apparently was. I was SO SO SO stupid that I just didn't pick up on any of the signals. Like I also found her attractive and was interested in her,yet for some reason I never made any moves! That was definitely one of the biggest regrets of my life. I feel you dude, don't beat yourself up for it though, a lot of girls are gonna be into you. Who knows, maybe some chick you know is squealing with her friends about how cute she thinks you are?
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2018 22:39:04 GMT 10
Not to brag, but too many times, and it wasn't reciprocated because it was always girls crushing on me, and I'm gay :s The most embarrassing times were once when I was around 7/8, I was at a birthday party, and we were playing Mario Kart 64 battle mode. It's largely based on luck, but I kept on losing. I was visibly upset, and so my friend's older sister gave me a kiss on the cheek to make me feel better, but it only made things worse as everyone erupted in laughter. Another time was when I was 16. She and her friend were borderline stalkers. She would always hound me down when I was trying to walk home from school or when I was out and about throughout town. It all reached peak embarrassment when she and her friend were asking me too many personal questions and giving me sexual compliments while we were walking on a bridge, and then proceeded to grope me and then hug (more like entrap) me. I was paralyzed and had no idea what to do, and she was blocking all foot traffic on the bridge which only added to the spectacle and my embarrassment. When I finally returned home, I was overwhelmed with feelings of humiliation and being violated. I skipped all my classes for the rest of the day and for the few weeks afterwards, songs about objects of sexual desire or unrequited love (e.g. "You don't know how bad I wanna kiss you") would always trigger me and I'd turn them off, even songs I enjoyed before the incident. I rarely saw them after the incident, thankfully. I think they realized what they did was wrong and wasn't appreciated, and other than still annoyingly saying "hi" and giving me beaming smiles whenever I passed them, they started to leave me alone. Anyway, those are the only overly embarrassing ones. There are a few others, but they were flattering and boosted my self-confidence rather than embarrassing
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Post by Deleted on Aug 18, 2018 3:06:47 GMT 10
With MY looks? Surely you jest!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 18, 2018 4:42:02 GMT 10
Unfortunately no.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2018 16:29:46 GMT 10
Highly unlikely
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