Politics in the 2020s

well u shouldnt assume all ppl are cis bc ur excluding trans ppl and acting like they dont exist...they're ppl too..by doing that ur being transphobic bc you ignore the fact trans ppl are ppl and they exist. that's like assuming ppl are white and straight bc u dont know anything else

I do agree with the jist of what you're saying, but where do you draw the line between what is considered "acceptance" and what is considered "bias"? LGBTG equality has arguably never been better and the fact that people are so openly talking about it should be embraced. People who treat LGBTQ members than non-LGBTQ members still comes under the mindset of acceptance, whichever way you look at it.

Aaaaand that's where you miss it. There is absolutely nothing empirically or scientifically to establish that CIS is actually a default, rather than a random choice among several options. If you're saying CIS is normal, that's really barely different than saying "white" is normal/default and POCs aren't normal until proven otherwise.

People tend to go by what they perceive to be the majority. Say for instance, you live in a predominantly black city & you hear somebody talk about a neighbor that recently moved in. Your first instinct is to assume that neighbor is black because the black population makes up the majority of your neighborhood. This applies to other places where one race predominantly lives & the others are rarer/minorities.

It’s not about presuming someone is trans vs. CIS at first blush, but rather treating CIS as “normal,” and by extension anyone not in that umbrella as abnormal. Abnormalizing people that way is a step towards discriminating against them and possibly going so far as physical persecution.

Just because we treat cis as "normal" (which it is) doesn't always mean we don't treat trans as normal too. You can do both at the same time. I was just trying to say that since cis genders are the vast majority and gender dysphoria is rather rare, people will just assume others are cisgender by default and that's just how parents raise their kids until there is evidence of a serious gender dysphoria condition.

When I said "everyone is born cis", I didn't mean as in "having gender dysphoria is a choice", I technically meant that we're given the gender identity that matches our biological sex from birth because that's just the way it is. Parents dress their kids in stereotypical girly stuff if they're a girl, and stereotypical boy stuff if they're a boy. So of course parents will assume their kid is cisgender until there are signs of gender dysphoria. But that's not always treating trans as "not normal" though. As I said before, it has to do with the fact that cis genders make up a huge percent of the population and transgenders being extremely rare. 

I don't concur with the idea of same-sex marriage. It conflicts with my religion. I don't agree with the community, however, I respect everybody as people.