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Post by kev2000sfan on Mar 30, 2020 1:33:54 GMT 10
As in, I mean family members that you stay away from because of their toxic personality? I honestly cut off one of my close family members because I feel there's no way I can have her without her shady traits and it got repetitive to where I feel great about it. Some people really take enjoyment out of drama and its impossible to see them without dramatic personality traits since its apart of them.
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Post by John Titor on Mar 30, 2020 3:51:49 GMT 10
As in, I mean family members that you stay away from because of their toxic personality? I honestly cut off one of my close family members because I feel there's no way I can have her without her shady traits and it got repetitive to where I feel great about it. Some people really take enjoyment out of drama and its impossible to see them without dramatic personality traits since its apart of them.
I dated someone like this last year, its best to STAY far away from these people as they most likely suffer from a mental illness personality disorder, common themes with these people are: . Gas Lighting . Guilt Tripping . Manipulation . Reveling in arguments . Creating artificial arguments . Triangulation (pitting 2 people against each other) Traits are esp heightened in dating a guy . Love bombing (going on trips, doing extra stuff to lock you in) . Devaluation ( once you catch them in a lie they start treating u like crap) . Discard (grooming a new source behind the scenes and getting rid of you because you don't kiss their ass) I feel like I could write a book on TOXIC people
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Post by aja675 on Mar 31, 2020 11:33:31 GMT 10
As in, I mean family members that you stay away from because of their toxic personality? I honestly cut off one of my close family members because I feel there's no way I can have her without her shady traits and it got repetitive to where I feel great about it. Some people really take enjoyment out of drama and its impossible to see them without dramatic personality traits since its apart of them.
I dated someone like this last year, its best to STAY far away from these people as they most likely suffer from a mental illness personality disorder, common themes with these people are: . Gas Lighting . Guilt Tripping . Manipulation . Reveling in arguments . Creating artificial arguments . Triangulation (pitting 2 people against each other) Traits are esp heightened in dating a guy . Love bombing (going on trips, doing extra stuff to lock you in) . Devaluation ( once you catch them in a lie they start treating u like crap) . Discard (grooming a new source behind the scenes and getting rid of you because you don't kiss their ass) I feel like I could write a book on TOXIC people I recall reading up about this stuff when I had a bad disagreement with someone from the Internet. Looking back, it might just have been a personality clash. (Because he has a really blunt stan Twitter personality.)
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Post by kev2000sfan on Mar 31, 2020 12:40:48 GMT 10
As in, I mean family members that you stay away from because of their toxic personality? I honestly cut off one of my close family members because I feel there's no way I can have her without her shady traits and it got repetitive to where I feel great about it. Some people really take enjoyment out of drama and its impossible to see them without dramatic personality traits since its apart of them.
I dated someone like this last year, its best to STAY far away from these people as they most likely suffer from a mental illness personality disorder, common themes with these people are: . Gas Lighting . Guilt Tripping . Manipulation . Reveling in arguments . Creating artificial arguments . Triangulation (pitting 2 people against each other) Traits are esp heightened in dating a guy . Love bombing (going on trips, doing extra stuff to lock you in) . Devaluation ( once you catch them in a lie they start treating u like crap) . Discard (grooming a new source behind the scenes and getting rid of you because you don't kiss their ass) I feel like I could write a book on TOXIC people With my sister, her last act really put a dent in me. It was really repetitive and a turn off, I gotta dislike them. As much as I tried to get her to calm her nerves over little things, I believe you can't really help them.
It was just shady attitude and fake love.
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Post by SharksFan99 on Mar 31, 2020 16:56:28 GMT 10
I've never had to cut-off any family members as I've always bonded with everyone, but it helps that the only people in my extended family who I see regularly are my parents and grandparents. My Mum's side of the family have never been a huge part of my life. Not for personal reasons, they just happen to have some strange ways. We do maintain contact with my Mum's brother though (my uncle). He lives down in Tasmania and we've made several trips down there over the years to see him.
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Post by kev2000sfan on Apr 2, 2020 22:30:02 GMT 10
I wouldn't want to hold grudges, I know how stressful it is. But there are some people I really can't forgive. It depends on the trauma. I don't wish the worst on them, I wouldn't want them to suffer but I just can't see my self acknowledging them.
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